this is like coming out, in that it's often the most visible sign of my neurology. therefore I owe it to myself to stim on whenever it's safe to do so.
fortunately, it's almost always safe for me to stim. my job is informal enough that I could probably do it in my pajamas. my friends accept all of me. my girlfriend thinks it's cute.
I'm very lucky, but it should be that way for everyone.